Bestowing Your Blessing on Yourself by Tim Kelley
Discover a step-by-step system to use your own unique gifts to take your growth, influence, and success to the next level.
In 12 sessions, you’ll learn to transform yourself in a precise, proven way that will heal your wounds, unlock your natural genius and catalyze your next level of growth.
Our unique gifts typically emerge from the emotional wounds, struggles and even devastating failures we’ve experienced throughout our lives.
We then tend to be impelled to heal and transform in others the very wounds we’ve yet to heal in ourselves.
This is the pattern of the “wounded healer,” in which we endeavor to help others in the exact areas we feel most deeply challenged.
The result is we ourselves remain stuck, which inhibits our capacity to fully give others our “unique blessing,” as world renowned coach Tim Kelley calls it, and often leads to burnout.
It’s a tricky process because we tend to build defenses around our wounds and resist letting go of habits and ideas that no longer serve us.
So what does it take to FULLY release your old wounds and free yourself from your accumulated fears and limiting beliefs so that you become a more powerful, intelligent, and effective catalyst for change?
The short answer is “ Do unto yourself as you would unto others, ” a reversal of the Golden Rule.
In essence, you apply your wisdom, insights, and authentic power to the places you are most wounded or challenged.
This is the journey of self-blessing and really the prerequisite to fulfilling your highest purpose.
It’s a profound process that liberates you from the past, deepens your consciousness, and equips you with the skills to help the people you’re meant to “bless.”
Freed of old blocks and other patterns of the wounded healer, you begin to embody the transformation you’re destined to inspire in others.
The Challenge of Blessing Yourself
However, just as it’s very difficult to cut your own hair in a mirror, it can be quite tricky to give to yourself what you’ve been called to give to others.
You’re likely to hit up against internal resistance and defenses, distract yourself, and even rationalize that you’ve “been there, done that.”
(It’s hard to see ourselves as clearly as we see others — and frankly, we can be tougher clients!)
While it’s harder to bless yourself, it’s doubly important. Only then can you experience the profound freedom that comes from fulfilling your higher purpose.
The journey of self-blessing transforms wounded healers into empowered change agents.
Coaching, therapy, books and workshops can help, but only YOU can fully heal yourself and lower the barriers to blessing others fully.
The process of self-blessing is precise and methodical, with clear steps and markers that indicate when you’re ready to move to the next phase of the journey.
Blessing yourself requires navigating your own personal history and psychology skillfully and in very specific ways.
It might take you a few weeks or as long as a few years. The good news is that you don’t need to stop helping others while you are bestowing your blessing on yourself.
The further you go, the BETTER you are at helping others, so if you work in the healing or transformation field, you’re very likely to see improvements in your business while you’re engaged in the self-blessing process.
The Deepest Transformation You Can Receive
Transformational teacher Tim Kelley has developed precise methods to uncover your unique gifts and how you offer them to others and generate a step-by-step process for giving yourself this ‘blessing’ and in turn, completely change your life.
During Bestowing Your Blessing on Yourself, a program tailored to coaches, therapists, teachers, change agents and messengers, you be guided through this process for yourself.
Tim Kelley is one of the world’s most cutting-edge teachers of this powerful work. As an internationally renowned coach and change agent, he has created an innovative and structured approach for tapping higher guidance and aligning our lives with our purpose. He blends deep spiritual wisdom with worldly practicality in a profound way.
That’s why Tim’s methods have been used successfully by CEOs of multinational corporations, political leaders, billionaires and many transformational change agents.
His education in mathematics at MIT, distinguished career in Silicon Valley high-tech and experience as a reservist Naval Officer have led to techniques that are practical, replicable and reliable.
He knows the secrets to transformation, having followed his own to create a life traveling the world, supporting thousands of people in live out their true purpose and help people heal and transform.
Tim’s comprehensive methods are proven. In fact, his work is so trusted that prominent government ministers have used his systems in the creation of international treaties and settling of national disputes.
The process of blessing yourself is actually the MOST transformative method that Tim has discovered in his decades of trying almost everything out there.
Blessing yourself liberates you in the precise ways that you will liberate others. So you’re able to model greater healing and transformation, which is far more effective.
Until you learn how to bless yourself, your ability to bless others won’t fully reflect your true capabilities.
So the question is, “Are you ready to access your deepest gifts and apply them to yourself in a way that liberates far more of your potential?”
If so, this program is for you!
In Bestowing Your Blessing on Yourself, you’ll
- Gain a greater understanding of purpose and how to express it in the world
- Develop a better connection with your Higher Guidance, which is essential to receiving and clarifying your blessing
- Become more authentic, trustworthy and confident as you do your work in the world
- Experience deep healing and transformation
- Open to a sense of ease and flow where you had once been blocked, stuck, depleted, confused
- Get a greater sense of how your life has been purposeful training for you to heal yourself and others
- Discover the value of honoring both ego and trusted sources of guidance as you move through the process of receiving clear details about your most purposeful transformation
- Connect with a trusted source of guidance to receive clear and resonant details about the transformational blessing you are uniquely designed and perfectly trained to deliver
- Develop a clear vision for yourself and your life once this transformation is complete
- Learn two powerful techniques for clearing the fears, doubts and limiting beliefs that can block your success in any important goal in your life
- Develop a blessing-based purpose statement that embodies the energy and impact of the transformation you are called to deliver
- Find language to describe the people who most need and want your transformational blessing and will be naturally drawn to your work
- Hone the specific steps you must take to become the change agent you are meant to be
- Develop a plan for continual evolution and transformation
You’ll receive a state-of-the-art methodology and community of support so you can make profound shifts, opening you to more clarity, joy, and freedom, expanding your capacity to transform others.
What You’ll Discover in These 12 Sessions
In this 12-part transformational intensive, Tim, along with guest instructor Beth Scanzani, will guide you through the fundamental spiritual skills and competencies you need to successfully bless yourself and others with your unique, transformational gift.
Each training session will build harmoniously upon the next, so that you’ll develop a complete, holistic understanding of the practices, tools and principles you’ll need for the blessing journey.
Module 1: Clear the Path
The prospect of deep, personal transformation frequently activates fears and limiting beliefs. Before you engage in a process that will evolve your identity and catalyze your ability to deliver the purposeful gifts that you feel deeply called to offer, you will need to consciously attend to your natural doubts and reservations.
What would be possible if YOU received the transformational gifts that you are deeply called and perfectly designed to deliver to others? Bestowing your blessing on yourself changes how you view and experience the world.
In these two sessions with Tim, you’ll discover:
- The value of honoring both ego and trusted sources of guidance as you move through the process of receiving clear details about your most purposeful transformation
- How to connect with a trusted source of guidance to receive clear and resonant details about the transformational blessing you are uniquely designed and perfectly trained to deliver
- Freedom from fears that block you from healing old wounds and embodying a purpose-guided life or livelihood
- A clear vision for yourself and your life
- Two powerful techniques for clearing the fears, doubts and limiting beliefs that can block your achievement of important goals
Module 2: Know Your Gift
Though you have many skills and gifts, there is one unique transformational process that you are deeply called to offer in service to others. Whether or not you are currently clear about the transformation that you are perfectly designed to offer, you can be sure that this offering has a purposeful and powerful impact on the people who receive it.
It is this transformational gift that is your primary tool for changing the world. It is also a key to your deepest personal transformation and healing.
Most people give their gift unconsciously, never fully realizing its power. When you get really clear about the details of this blessing, you’ll realize that you’ve done this all your life without realizing it. From this place of clarity, you will see that the challenging patterns and events of your life were a perfect training ground for you to deliver your blessing to others, and perhaps more importantly, to yourself.
Before you can give this most precious gift to yourself, you must make it conscious and get clear details about the transformational process we call your “blessing.”
Once this process and the transformation impact it creates become clear to you, you can use it to coach individuals, transform groups in workshops and teleseminars, and even impact entire companies. Your blessing has many applications in the world, but the most powerful one is its capacity to transform you in ways that create a sense of inner peace, joyful self-expression and purpose-guided motivation.
Over these four sessions, you’ll receive:
- Clarity about the transformational impact that your blessing delivers
- A blessing-based purpose statement that embodies the energy and impact of the transformation you are called to deliver
- Resonant details and language to describe the people who most need and want your transformational blessing and will be naturally drawn to your work
- An explicit step-by-step process that moves you from wound-driven motivation to a sense of ease and guided momentum as you fully express yourself and your purposeful work in the world
Module 3: Blessing Yourself
Now that you have a clear and detailed map for creating your unique brand of purposeful transformation in the world, it’s time to offer your healing gifts to the one who needs them most… YOU!
We will guide you to consult your highest wisdom and discover how far you have progressed in the process of self-transformation (as a result of all the great personal work you’ve completed in your life so far) and what remains to be done. Then, we’ll help you create a specific plan for taking the next step in healing your wound-driven motivation and elevating your identity to the next level of impact as a change agent.
In this module, you’ll learn:
- What it feels like to embody the end-state of your purposeful transformation, and what is possible from this place that felt impossible before you blessed yourself
- Where you are in the journey to unleashing the next version of your evolved self
- The specific steps you must take to become the change agent you are meant to be
- Best practices and resources for making the path as smooth, purposeful and transformative as possible
Module 4: The Path to the Future
Now that you have the roadmap to the next version of yourself and are on your way, we will help you create a plan to continue this essential work for the long term. The wisdom, knowledge and practices you’ve learned in this program are designed to support you in staying consciously engaged in a continual process of rapid self-transformation.
With this “new normal,” every aspect of your life can feel expansive, meaningful and purposefully guided as you continue to evolve. When your identity and your energetic motivation have transformed beyond your wounds, you have a clear vision and path to fulfill your deepest calling.
You’ll emerge from this module with:
- A plan for continual evolution and transformation
- Resources to maintain and accelerate transformation
- Clarity about how to consciously evolve beyond your current identity and purpose
- Strategies and support to stay the course for the long term
The Bestowing Your Blessing on Yourself
In addition to Tim’s truly transformative 12-part online training, you’ll receive these powerful training sessions with leading visionaries and teachers. These bonus sessions complement the course — and take your understanding and practice to an even deeper level.
Self Help – Self Help online course
More information about Self Help:
Self-help or self-improvement is a self-guided improvement—economically, intellectually, or emotionally—often with a substantial psychological basis.
Many different self-help group programs exist, each with its own focus, techniques, associated beliefs, proponents and in some cases, leaders.
Concepts and terms originating in self-help culture and Twelve-Step culture, such as recovery, dysfunctional families, and codependency have become firmly integrated in mainstream language.
Self-help often utilizes publicly available information or support groups, on the Internet as well as in person, where people in similar situations join together.
From early examples in self-driven legal practice and home-spun advice, the connotations of the word have spread and often apply particularly to education, business,
psychology and psychotherapy, commonly distributed through the popular genre of self-help books.
According to the APA Dictionary of Psychology, potential benefits of self-help groups that professionals may not be able to provide include friendship,
emotional support, experiential knowledge, identity, meaningful roles, and a sense of belonging.